How Long Can I Survive Without Buying Stuff?

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๐Ÿšซ The No-Buying Challenge

I decided to start a No-Buying Challenge.
The rule is simple: buy nothing except food, transportation, and work-related essentials. Thatโ€™s it.

๐Ÿ’ก Why I Started This Challenge

There are several reasons behind it:

  • ๐ŸŽ“ I want to save money for grad school (sport psychology).
  • ๐Ÿ  My apartment is tinyโ€”too much stuff = instant stress.
  • ๐Ÿ’ฐ My salary isnโ€™t that high, so every yen counts.
  • ๐Ÿง  I want to understand motivation better, not just in theory but in real life.
  • ๐Ÿ’ช I want to be creative and strong without relying on spending money.

๐Ÿงน Preparing Before the No-Buying Challenge

Before starting my No-Buying Challenge ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ›๏ธ, I cleaned up my room.
The reason? So that everything I need is easy to find and use when I need it ๐Ÿ“ฆโœจ.

I had 89 clothing items ๐Ÿ‘•๐Ÿ‘– in total. I threw away things I didnโ€™t need โŒ and recycled items that were still usable โ™ป๏ธ, bringing the total down to 42 items.

Now, Iโ€™m ready for the challenge โœ….

๐Ÿ’ก Tip: After cleaning, youโ€™ll know exactly what you really need. This way, you can buy necessary items all at once before starting your No-Buying Challenge and avoid unnecessary purchases.

๐Ÿ”‘ Why Motivation Matters

motivation intrinsic and extrinsic

Ever failed to keep up with your goals?

  • New Yearโ€™s resolutions โŒ
  • Morning routines โŒ
  • Fitness plans โŒ

Me too. Many times.

Itโ€™s easy to set goals, but sticking to them is the real challenge. Thatโ€™s where motivation comes in. Research shows that whether we succeed or fail often depends on the type of motivation we use.

If I rely only on sheer willpower, Iโ€™ll probably fail again. Thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m applying psychologyโ€”using both extrinsic and intrinsic motivation.

๐ŸŽ Extrinsic Motivation

Extrinsic = doing something for a reward or to avoid punishment.

Common examples:

  • ๐Ÿ’ฐ Money, prizes, or bonuses
  • ๐Ÿ… Awards, certificates, or recognition
  • ๐Ÿ‘€ Social approval, praise, or peer pressure
  • โฐ Avoiding punishment or negative consequences
  • ๐Ÿ“ˆ Career advancement or promotion

Studies show that financial penalties or social pressure can boost self-control.

๐Ÿ‘‰ My trick: If I break the rule and buy something unnecessary, Iโ€™ll donate $100 to charity. Painful enough to keep me in check!

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Keisuke

But where should I donate if I failโ€ฆ?

๐Ÿ”ฅ Intrinsic Motivation

Intrinsic = doing something because it personally matters to you.

Common examples:

๐Ÿค Connection (volunteering because it feels meaningful, helping others)
๐Ÿ’– Personal growth (learning a new skill for yourself)
๐Ÿ† Mastery (improving performance or competence)
๐ŸŽจ Creativity (enjoying the process of making something)
๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™‚๏ธ Fun/enjoyment (playing sports, hobbies, or games just because it feels good)
๐Ÿ‘‰ My trick: I remind myself why Iโ€™m saving money (Grad School). I even wrote these reasons on paper and stuck it to my wall.

Studies show that people stick to habits longer when they connect actions to personal values or identity.

๐Ÿงช My Experiment Setup

So hereโ€™s the combo Iโ€™m testing:

  • Extrinsic โ†’ Peer pressure & penalty (donation rule).
  • Intrinsic โ†’ Daily reminders of why this challenge matters to me.

๐Ÿ““ What Happened / Observations/

DateEvents
2025/8/15Started Challenge ๐Ÿš€
8/19Found cool pants at Familymart but I didn’t buy. It was 50% off tha’s why I wanted to get it more.
8/24My underwear gets wet because Iโ€™m still hot after a shower. I want cool underwear for the summer.

The Science of Motivation for Athletes and Everyday Life

๐Ÿง  Self-Determination Theory (SDT)

๐Ÿ“Œ Category๐Ÿ“ Details
๐Ÿ‘ค Who proposedEdward Deci & Richard Ryan (1985)
๐Ÿ“– What is the theory aboutExplains how intrinsic (๐Ÿ’– internal) and extrinsic (๐ŸŽ external) motivation drive behavior. Focuses on autonomy ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ, competence ๐Ÿ†, relatedness ๐Ÿค.
๐Ÿ”‘ Key findingsMotivation is stronger when these needs are satisfied. Intrinsic motivation = longer-lasting habits.
โšฝ Example for athleteA soccer player trains extra hours not just for praise, but because they love improving skills.
โญ When itโ€™s effectiveWorks best when athletesโ€™ actions satisfy autonomy ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ, competence ๐Ÿ†, and relatedness ๐Ÿค. Intrinsic motivation lasts longer and improves persistence.

๐Ÿ‘ฅ Peer Pressure (Social Influence)

๐Ÿ“Œ Category๐Ÿ“ Details
๐Ÿ‘ค Who proposedStudied in social psychology (Asch, Cialdini, and others)
๐Ÿ“– What is the theory aboutBehavior changes under group expectations ๐Ÿ‘ฅ, norms ๐Ÿ“, or judgments ๐Ÿ‘€. Can be positive โœ… (support/accountability) or negative โŒ (stress).
๐Ÿ”‘ Key findingsPeople adjust behavior to fit group norms, avoid punishment, or gain approval ๐Ÿ‘. Accountability = stronger self-control.
๐Ÿƒ Example for athleteA runner sticks to training because teammates are watching ๐Ÿ‘€, or joins extra practice since everyone else does it.
โญ When itโ€™s effectiveโญWorks best when positive accountability โœ… is present and social pressure is supportive, not excessive. Helps push effort ๐Ÿ’ช without harming mental health ๐Ÿ˜“.
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